Quarter-life Crisis

One of the best mails in recent times... just too philosophically practical... :)

BEING IN TWENTIES - SOMETHING =0A=0AIt is when you stop going along with the crowd
and start realizing that there are many things
about yourself that you didn't know and may not like.
You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared
because you barely know where you are now. You start realizing that people are selfish and that,
maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met,
and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones.
What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold,
catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you.
You look at your job... and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing,
or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you.
Your opinions have gotten stronger.
You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual
because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't.
One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life.
You feel alone and scared and confused.
Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life,
but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away,
and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.
You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you.
Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better.
Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you're doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person.
One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic.
You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision.
You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself... and while winning the race would be great,
right now you'd just like to be a contender!
What you may not realize is that every one reading this relates to it.
We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.
We call it the "Quarter-life Crisis."

mistek..

blog writen by ashmi on mistek nice blog must read this :)

http://ashminandu.blogspot.com/2008/04/mistakes.html

Does Love need a Reason...??

Some people never understand

Once a lady when having a conversation with her lover, asked:

Lady :

Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?


Man :

I cant tell the reason.. but I really like you..

Lady :

You can t even tell me the reason... how can you say you like

me? How can you say you love me?

Man :

I really don t know the reason, but I can prove that I love U.

Lady :

Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend s boyfriend can
tell her why he loves her but not you!

Man :

Ok..ok!!! Erm... because you are beautiful,


Because your voice is sweet,

because you are caring,

because you are loving,

because you are thoughtful,

because of your smile,

because of your every movements.

The lady felt very satisfied with the man s answer.

Unfortunately, a few days later, the Lady met with an accident and
went in comma.

The Guy then placed a letter by her side,


here is the content:
Darling,Because of your sweet voice that I love you...Now can you
talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.


Because of your care and concern that I like you..Now that you cannot
show them, therefore I cannot love you.


Because of your smile,because of your every movements that I love you..

Now can you smile? Now can you move?No, therefore I cannot love you...


If love needs a reason, like now,There is no reason for me to love you anymore.


Does love need a reason?


NO!Therefore,
I still LOVE YOU...


"True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a
lifetime but lust just pushes away"


************ ********* **



Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says
'I need you because I love you.'

'Fate Determines Who Comes Into Our Lives, But Heart Determines Who Stays...'

you r every thing (by hima jatania)

You are Everything To 

someone 

thinks the world of you 

someone 

wants to protect you 

someone 

would do anything for you

someone 

wants to be forgiven 

someone 

is grateful for your forgiveness 

someone 

wants to laugh with you about old times 

someone 

remembers you and wishes you were there

someone 

needs to know that your love is unconditional 

somebody 

values your advice 

someone 

wants to tell you how much they care 

someone 

wants to stay up watching old movies with you 

someone 

wants to share their dreams with you 

someone 

wants to hold you in their arms 

someone 

wants YOU to hold them in your arms 

someone 

treasures your spirit 

someone 

wishes they could STOP time because of you 

someone 

can't wait to see you 

someone 

wishes that things didn't have to change 

someone 

loves you for who you are 

someone 

loves the way you make them feel 

someone 

wants to be with you 

someone 

hears a song that reminds them of you 

someone 

wants you to know they are there for you 

someone 

is glad that you're their friend

someone 

wants to be your friend

someone 

stayed up all night thinking about you 

someone 

is alive because of you 

someone 

is wishing that you would notice them 

someone 

wants to get to know you better

someone 

believes that you are their soul mate 

someone 

wants to be near you 

someone 

misses your guidance and advice 

someone 

values your guidance and

someone 

has faith in you 

someone 

trusts you 

someone 

needs you to send them this letter 

someone 

needs your support 

someone 

needs you to have faith in them 

someone 

needs you to let them be your friend 

someone 

will cry when they read this

ten signs u addicted to google

10. Your kids still believe the Googlebot is bringing the Christmas presents.

9. Your reply to “How are you” is “I’m feeling lucky”, combined with a clicking gesture.

8. You shout at the librarian when she takes more than 0.1 seconds to find your book.

7. You just lost a case in court to name your newborn son “Google”.

6. You think of Google as your second-best friend, but lately consider it to get into first position.

5. Your Google shirt is losing color.

4. When people talk to you, you try to optimize their keywords.

3. Your last three Sunday family trips have been to the Googleplex.

2. You are convinced “What’s your PageRank?” is a good pick-up line.

And the number one sign you are addicted to Google:

1. You are completely clueless without a computer.

copied from :- http://blogoscoped.com/archive/2003_06_16_index.html

24 Things To Always Remember

by: Author Unknown, Source Unknown

Your presence is a present to the world.

You are unique and one of a kind.

Your life can be what you want it to be.

Take the days just one at a time.

Count your blessings, not your troubles.

You will make it through whatever comes along.

Within you are so many answers.

Understand, have courage, be strong.

Do not put limits on yourself.

So many dreams are waiting to be realized.

Decisions are too important to leave to chance.

Reach for your peak, your goal and you prize.

Nothing wastes more energy than worrying.

The longer one carries a problem the heavier it gets.

Do not take things too seriously.

Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.

Remember that a little love goes a long way.

Remember that a lot … goes forever.

Remember that friendship is a wise investment.

Life’s treasure are people together.

Realize that it is never too late.

Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.

Have hearth and hope and happiness.

Take the time to wish upon a start.

AND DO NOT EVER FORGET ….
FOR EVEN A DAY
HOW VERY SPECIAL YOU ARE !